TIPS IN CHOOSING A PARTNER
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Begin right and all will be right with you, but
when you begin wrong all will begin wrong with you. When courting, you should
make a business of it and study your interest the same way as you would study
any other business proposition. There
are many fatal errors and many love-making failures in courtship. Love
naturally, not artificially. Don’t love somebody or a nobody simply because
they have money, for you will leave to regret the choice you made, all the rest
of your life.
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Court scientifically, the world is full of
wretched and miss-mated people. A failure in courtship may mean more than a
loss of wealth; it may mean ruin or a life worse than death.
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Any improper liberties which are permitted by
young ladies, whether engaged or not, will change love into sexuality, and her
affections will become obnoxious, if not repellent.
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A sensible woman should not marry an obstinate
but injudicious, unintelligent man, because she can’t for long endure to see
and help him blindly follow his plans, but spurn her own good plans.
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Men who love to command must be especially
careful not to marry imperious, women’s-rights woman, while those who willingly
“obey orders” will be better. Some men require a wife who shall take their
part, yet all who do need strong-willed women, should be careful how they marry
them.
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An industrious, thrifty, hard-working man should
marry a woman tolerably saving and industrious.
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Small, nervous men must not marry little,
nervous or sanguine women, or else both them and their children will have too
much of the hot-headed and impulsive, and die suddenly.
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Don’t be afraid of marrying a poor man or woman.
Good health, cheerful disposition, fearless hearts and industrious hands will
bring happiness and comfort.
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Young people with serious intentions, or those
who are engaged should be thoroughly loyal to each other. When freedom is seek
with others the flame of jealousy is likely to be kindled and love is often turned
to hatred, and the severest anger of the soul aroused. Loyalty, faithfulness,
confidence, are the three jewels to be cherished in courtship.
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A timid woman should never marry a hesitating
man, or else, like frightened children, each keep perpetually re-alarming the
other by imaginary fears.
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It is best to marry someone of your own faith
and religious convictions. The difference of faith is apt to divide families,
and to produce great trouble in after life. A pious woman should beware of
marrying an irreligious man.
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