MARRIAGE TIPS FOR YOUNG LADIES:

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• Do not marry merely for the impulse of love: Love is a principle as well as an emotion. So far as it is a sentiment it is a blind guide. It does not wait to test the presence of exalted character in its object before breaking out into a flame.
• Test carefully the effect of protracted association: If familiarity breeds contempt before marriage, it will afterward.
• Marry character: It is not so much what one has as what he/she is as a person.
• Demand a just return: If you give virtue and purity, gentleness and integrity. Then you also have a right to demand the same in return. Duty requires it.
• Do not marry the wrong object: Someone once said that “he would rather marry his daughter to a man without money than to money without a man. It is well to have both, but it is fatal to have neither.
  
  
• Test carefully the effect of protracted separation: True love will defy both time and space.
• Do not marry without love: A body without a soul soon becomes offensive.
• Do not marry downward: It is hard enough to advance in the quality of life without being loaded with clay heavier than your own. It will be sufficiently difficult to keep your children up to your best level without having to correct a bias in their blood.
• Do not sell yourself: It doesn't matter whether the price be money or position.
• Do not throw yourself away: You will not receive too much, even if you are paid full price.
• Do not marry because someone else may seek the same hand: One glove may not fit all hands equally well.
• Do not marry to get rid of anybody: The coward who shot himself to escape from being drafted was insane.
• Do not marry to please any third party: You must do the living and enduring.
• Seek the advice of your parents: Your parents are your best friends. They will make more sacrifice for you than any other mortals. They are elevated above selfishness concerning your choice, it is because they must.
• Do not marry simply because you have promised to do so: If a seam opens between you now it will widen into a gulf. It is less offensive to retract a mistaken promise than to perjure your soul before the altar. Your intended spouse has a right to absolute integrity.
• Seek each other's happiness: A selfish marriage that seeks only its own happiness defeats itself, happiness is a fire that will not burn long on one stick.
• Do not marry suddenly: It can always be done till it is done, if it is a proper thing to do.
• Marry your own grade in society: It is painful to be always apologizing for anyone. It is more painful to be apologize for.
• A good long courtship: A good long courtship will often cure many difficulties or ills of the sexual organs. See each other often, spend many pleasant hours together, have many walks and talks, think of each other while absent, write many love letters, be inspired to many love feelings and acts towards each other, and exercise your sexuality in a thousand forms ten thousand times, everyone of which tones up and thereby recuperates this very element now dilapidated. When you have courted long enough to marry, you will be sufficiently restored to be re-improved by it.

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